Being angry is a normal expression when we feel unsatisfied with something or someone else. Sometimes we can spend our day with bad feeling because we are angry with someone. Can you imagine if you are a costumer service and you have to face a lot of people with ten thousand complaints and then in the same time we get a personal problem, can you keep sane?
Not all people can keep sane when they are in the lowest condition of feeling. I just want to share my experience when I was fed up with someone or something. According to my experience, if we feel angry, so you have to express your angry because it is not good to hold on your fury, it isn’t healthy for your body and soul. One time, may be you can express your feeling in front of the person who had made you mad and make him/ her know that you are really serious with that matter, but remember, there’s a limitation when you express it. Not to hurt your self or anyone else physically, but try to find a good solution to handle your feeling.
For me, We have to know the situation and the condition, yes we are angry but we have to realize about our position. If you are a leader of one organization, so you have to know when to be angry and how to manage your self. You don’t want to show your angry in front of your employee because it puts in your place. Be smart in managing your self.
When there is someone who is really mad and he wants to talk to you, I suggest you not to be with him/ her until he is sober. And When you are angry, I suggest you not to take a decision. Let your self calm down and take a deep breathe.
“A smart person is someone who can handle his/ her horse”