Have u ever heard about someone who can be so emphatic? Put his feeling in the same side from the other guy. Thinking by using someone else’s persfective. I think not everyone of you has ever heard about that.
It’s easy to use your imagination to make your own castle. Because it happens only in ur mind. But how if you use your imagination to help someone. Actually it’s not 100% imagination, but you have to be emphatic and sometimes it needs a trigger. What is the best trigger to build an emphatic? Of course, Experience!
Bad or good experience will be a very good trigger when u wanna use it to help someone. But, be careful, dont dive too deep, cos you will not help the person that u wanna help, but it can change u and blurr ur own persfective.
Being emphatic also can help u in leading someone to do something. Do you know it? To do something that he or she needs? To do something that u want him or her to do it? It’s a big different and be wise.
Here, i just wanna share with u that being emphatic is a help for someone else that really down, inconfident, feel guilty, and cant be moved. If we cant help someone with something that the eyes cant see, just help him with ur emphatic and it’s so touching.
Thank u guys for reading this, i wish i give u something…