This is the first time for our family to make an event like this. Survey, Choose, and Order. I think just three points to make this event run well. But, it seems so hard anyway… why?
Food: who’s gonna be the cook? Who’s gonna be the helpers? Catering or cooking by our selves? Where do we cook? What kind of food will be served? Drinks? Who will be the cleaners? Is the kitchen ready? What is the dessert? How many desserts will be ready?
Venue: house or rent aula? How much? The place for all people? For family? Is it enough?
Decoration: who will decorate it? Is it one packet with the make up or dress? Can we get only one packet? Is it cheaper?
Invitation: how many? How much? How long will it take? The design?
Souvenir: how many? Useful thing or just a souvenir? How much?
Dress: how many dresses will we get? How much? What about family? What color is it? Expensive? With the packet of make up or hair do?
And I don’t know what else…
It will be in this october, still 2 months to go, but it has already made us crazy of everything. At first, we do the best and hope everything has to be perfect and beautiful. Second, the God do the rest.
Sometimes, the parents want this, we want that. It’s too complicated to match all people want. But, what I get is, this family is still learning, we cant force what we want because it’s not for my mom or my dad, but for all of family members, my sist and her future husband.
All of complicated things and make sure everything is ready.. for me it’s the best experience.
Happy for you my sister… I ♥ U.